My Services

How does counselling work?

 

Counselling allows people to talk about their problems and feelings in a confidential, safe and regular space. A counsellor is trained to listen with empathy (by putting themselves in your shoes) to help you deal with any negative thoughts and feelings you may be having.

Counselling aims to help you deal with and overcome issues that are causing emotional pain or making you feel uncomfortable. The counsellor is there to support you and respect your views and they won’t usually give advice, but will help you find your own insights into and understanding of your problems.

Sometimes people feel worse before they feel better as counselling can often involve exploring difficult or painful feelings, and bringing them to the surface to be released. However with the help and support of your counsellor you should gradually start to feel better. In most cases, it takes a number of sessions before the counselling starts to make a difference, and a regular commitment is required to make the best use of the therapy.

At this point, you’re probably asking yourself, why should I go to counselling if it is just going to make me feel worse? And the answer is that while you may experience pain, this process is necessary in order to fully explore your situation in a way that will lead to new insights and healing. These new insights often come with some much needed relief.

During your counselling sessions, you’ll be encouraged to express your feelings and emotions. By discussing your concerns the counsellor can help you gain a better understanding of your feelings and thought processes, as well as identifying ways of finding your own solutions to problems.

It can be a great relief to share your worries and fears with someone who acknowledges your feelings and is able to help you reach a positive solution. The more you open up about things, the more you will get out of counselling.

Face to Face Counselling

£60 per 50 minute session

Online SKYPE Counselling - Phone Call or Video

£45 per 50 minute session

Online Chat

£45 per 50 minute session

* Cancellations with less then 24 hours notice may incur a £25 cancellation charge which is to cover the room hire/fees/time & would need paid before the next booking is made.

I work mainly through Skype, however I also have a physical location in North-East England. I choose my venues because they are quiet and holistic.

A-Z of issues I can work with

Abortion

Abuse

Addiction(s)

ADHD

Affairs and betrayals

Alcoholism

Anger management

Anorexia nervosa

Antisocial personality disorder

Anxiety

Attachment disorder

Autism

Avoidant personality disorder

Behaviour problems

Bereavement

Binge-eating disorder

Bipolar disorder

Body dysmorphic disorder

Borderline personality disorder

Bulimia nervosa

Bullying

Cancer

Career counselling

Carer support

Child related issues

Childhood bereavement

Childhood bullying

Chronic fatigue syndrome/ME

Dementia

Depression

Depression and anxiety in children

Disabilities

Discrimination

Dissociation

Domestic violence

Drug addiction

Eating disorders

Emotional abuse

Family issues

Feeling sad

Gambling

Gender dysphoria

Generalised anxiety disorder

Health anxiety

Hearing voices

HIV/AIDS

Hoarding

Infertility

Internet addiction

Loneliness

Low self-confidence

Low self-esteem

Miscarriage

Narcissistic personality disorder

Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)

Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder

Panic attacks

Paranoia

Passive aggressive behaviour

Personality disorders

Phobias

Physical abuse

Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)

Postnatal depression

Pregnancy and birth

Redundancy

Relationship problems

Schizophrenia

Seasonal affective disorder (SAD)

Self-harm

Separation and divorce

Separation anxiety

Sexual abuse

Sexuality

Smoking

Spirituality

Stress

Suicidal thoughts

Tourette’s syndrome

Trauma

Work-related stress

Other areas of interest that I have studied/learned about;

The work of Louise-Hay (forgiveness/self-love/letting go)

The work of Wayne Dyer (forgiveness/letting go/compassion)

The science of getting rich & paradigm shift by Bob Proctor (changing beliefs/positive thinking)

Vegan Nutritionist Diploma with a Distinction